There is no doubt that 50 Shades of Grey has certainly got us all the more inquisitive about adult bondage, discipline and dominance within our own sexual pleasures. Bondage or the letter “B” is just one aspect of BDSM, a reason for one partner to tie up the other so they may gain pleasure in submission, with the transfer of power, dominance and control. Bondage also uses tools that bring a variety of pleasure to the body as well to our imagination.
It is possible just to derive visual pleasure from seeing your partner tied up while the feeling of relinquishing control to another to satisfy a sexual urge can be incredibly appealing and deeply arousing. The wearing of erotic equipment alone, takes you to another place, fuelling your primal instincts and indulging in the psychological realms of submission giving you a real rush.
Bondage has always featured highly in many sexual fantasies for both men and women and the theme of using bondage has been present in erotica and pornography for some time. It is certainly something I love to play with in my films to varying degrees and certainly heightens pleasure and erotic tension for those watching too. Without getting into S&M (Sadomasochism) it is certainly possible to enjoy many levels of bondage to enhance your own sexual rush and excitement and those of trusted partners within a safe environment.
“The Ultimate Guide to Kink” by Tristan Taormino provides an educated look at the topic, while “SM 101” by Jay Wiseman provides the fundamentals of safe, sane S/M.
In line with those fantasies is that of dressing for the role often outfits for the submissive person tend to evoke a passive, innocent look, and a look of vulnerability. In a similar respect, the dominant person’s attire often reflect images of power, control, and extreme discipline which all add to the thrill. Accessorising with key items of erotic equipment to use and play. Many items can look intimidating at first, but this ironically also has the ability to increase the pleasure and play with the mind. Many key items often used within bondage play range from items of restraint to tie and tease, from ropes to cuffs and bondage tape, items for spanking, to items to adorn the body such as nipple wear to eye wear, masks and blindfolds, which offer an excellent step into sensory deprivation a simple but sensual favourite of mine.
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