In this study, over 4,000 people were surveyed and 89% named a hot threesome as their top fantasy. Straight men preferred to have two female lovers and straight women did not express a preference either way.
So just what is the appeal of the threesome fantasy?
Threesomes have been around for as long as people have been having sex, and even depicted in ancient art. Here’s an image from Wikipedia 1st C – and 510 BC It is still seen as slightly taboo or in some cases even damaging to relationships, but it’s our belief here at FrolicMe that there is absolutely nothing wrong with a good old session of ménage-a-trois musings.
We’ve been exploring all the joys of a hot threesome fantasy to find out why it is so popular.
So turn your sexual imagination dial up to 11 and come with us as we explore the wonderful world of threesome fantasy.
Fantasy and sexual imaginings do not mean that you are actually going to do something that doesn’t feel right in your real life. Our imagination is absolutely essential to our fantasy world—and often surprises us. Have you ever suddenly been turned on by something you were shocked by? It’s good to freefall into fantasy—a great way to take the first step is by reading some erotic stories or watching threesome porn films.
Fantasies change and evolve, influenced by many things and are a great way to work out what you like. You may have watched a film, or been served at a café by someone that gave you the eye and before you know it, they’ve popped up in your threesome fantasy!
from the film DOUBLE DIP
Sometimes you may find yourself in the middle of two men, being worshipped and adored, the complete focus of the combined attention. It can be a particularly powerful threesome fantasy to be the one in control, watching the men catch each other’s eye as you writhe between them. Would you like it if they leaned into each other for a kiss? Bringing a deeper level to the sexual contact.
Or perhaps you’re the male in the scene with two women lavishing their sexual energy upon you. Two women to satisfy and two women to feast upon.
We talked to two threesome fantasy fans about what about it gets them hot.
His view:
“I love the idea of one person being pleased by two others. The classic moment when two delicious women are taking it in turns to lick a guy’s cock is pretty damn hot. Though, I would quickly add, that I find it even hotter when a girl and a guy are both going down on a girl at the same time. Here it’s the contrasting techniques that are often evident—the woman always seems a little softer and gentler than the guy. Two people focusing all their erotic selves on another makes for a quite intense viewing.
The biggest delights of a threesome are the different positions the participants can create. I personally love triangles. My favourite is when the guy is lying down and there is one girl sitting on his face and the other on his cock, while both girls kiss each other above him. But it could equally be a girl lying down, with the others on top kissing above her. Then there are line ups—with three in a row—one inevitably being sucked, the other being fucked. Any combination works well here.
Of course, another classic bit of threesome action is when a guy is fucking a girl, and the other is ready to suck him when he pulls out for a moment. Or when a guy moves back and forth between pussies. All totally sumptuous.”
PJA Woode – FrolicMe author
Her view:
“I love fantasising about threesomes and watching ménage action in porn.
When I’m choosing a porno to watch either by myself or to heat up the sexual atmosphere with a lover, my go-to genres are Anal and Threesomes. I call myself heterosexual but to be honest when it comes to porn, I’m not sure I have hetero tastes at all. For one thing, a man and woman shagging—I’m not really interested. A woman sucking man’s cock—does nothing for me. A woman having her pussy licked by man? Yes, we’re getting there… A woman being fucked by man while another woman kisses her, eats her pussy, caresses her body? Yes! That will do nicely.
The only time I ever feel arousal watching a guy getting his dick sucked is if two women are sucking it together, sliding their mouths up and down in time and then meeting at the top to kiss passionately. But I don’t really care about ‘his’ pleasure at all. Is that awful?
from the film THREE IN A BED
I actually really enjoy MMF threesomes too—the thought of being a woman at the mercy of two sexy hungry men has me quivering. I love watching a spit roast, or a good double fingering. Again, the cock aspect doesn’t really arouse me, as much as her getting fucked and satisfied. Does that make sense?
So I think I have a very mixed taste with my porn watching habits and threesome fantasies.”
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The combinations and possibilities for fantasy seem endless, here are some of our favourite reasons to indulge in some threesome fantasising.
1 – Voyeurism
That oh so tantalising fantasy of being watched as you perform deliciously naughty acts with two people at once—watching and being watched—living out all sorts of threesome fun.
2 – Sharing
The sweet and simple act of sharing a moment with people you have great chemistry with.
3 – Heightened electricity.
There’s still something rather illicit about the threesome—this very notion of doing something a bit deviant can really amp up arousal—after all we know that feeling a bit naughty really has the power to turn us on.
4 – Power play.
You can really explore power dynamics in a threesome. Two people ravishing the other, or the other telling them exactly what to do. Or you may all be equal in the exchange, energy flowing beautifully through you all. Are you naturally submissive? Switch it up and take control, be the ringmaster for a while an see how it feels.
5 – Three is most definitely not a crowd in a hot threesome fantasy
Always room for one more! Imagine the wonder of tasting and kissing, performing oral sex on someone while someone else pays you the same attention. Yes, there’s always the good old 69 to explore this dynamic but to eat pussy while fucking a pussy or suck cock while being fucked hard by one, ohhh just imagine…
6 – Problematic Positions?
No fear! In your fantasy you can try out any combination, two guys and a girl, two girls and a guy, three of each, explore and feel, taste, try what would that be like? Hell, you can be as bendy as you want. A fantasy does not mean you’re ever going to try it and says nothing about your sexuality; however, it gives you the space to explore things you might not have thought of. A threesome is particularly good for this.
7 – Push your boundaries.
In the safety of your own mind, you can push the boundaries of what you think turns you on, don’t be scared to let go and imagine one or two of those thirty fingers sliding somewhere unexpected! Or a pair of lips latching on somewhere you’d never dared, perhaps the probing of a tongue in your most intimate spaces, while a set of sexy eyes watch on.
8 – Safe sex.
The absolute best reason to fantasise about a threesome? Fantasy is the safest sex there is! Just be sure if you decide to turn your fantasy into reality, consent and communication are first and foremost.
So there you have it! Threesome fantasies have a big seal of approval from us all here at FrolicMe – need more convincing? Enjoy this article on 5 people opening up about their experiences having a hot threesome. Or take a look through our threesome porn category there’s sure to be many things to tickle your ménage-a-trois fancy.
I want this my life.
FFM I’m greedy like that not is sexier than 2 females sucking my cock at the same time but also watching them tease and pleasure each other, but not without me doing my best to pleasure them both may not be the same time but will be once we have all had enough for the time being lol, sexy as fuck