With the current combination of the internet crammed with sex and sex acts being easy to stumble upon and yet, also entirely full of good sex and sexual wellbeing censorship, it can be increasingly hard for the discerning sex film lover to find and access good erotic content that doesn’t have you worrying what might pop up next. So here we have put together this ethical and feminist porn guide to help you navigate your way into the wheres and whys.
Just what is ethical porn and why should you be paying for it?
Ethical porn also known as feminist porn, is visual erotica and films depicting sex made with the well-being and consent of all involved strictly in mind.
From writers and directors to models and actors, everyone is fairly compensated for their work and should feel valued for their contribution. Unfortunately, although freely available porn can often be stumbled upon on the dominating tube sites, the models involved, particularly women, can appear to be there solely for the satisfaction of the male performers and cater purely to a male audience.
Does ethical porn exist?
Ethical and feminist porn was created to address this balance to ensure the models are there with full and enthusiastic consent and knowledge of the expectations for the scene. These films and filmmakers are producing respectful porn that shines a light on female empowerment through healthy sexual pleasure and where the women and the female gaze is centred. But to know if something truly is ethical, you need to know and ask, “Who is making your porn?” We can certainly say here at Frolicme that we are. We produce our own films with our own team headed up by Anna herself.
When it seems everything can be found online for free, how achievable is ethical and feminist porn?
Producers of erotic movies like Anna from FrolicMe have to charge for viewing the films via a one-off charge or a monthly subscription fee to accommodate their platform and ethos.
But I don’t want porn on my bank statement!
Don’t worry, just like all sensitive companies, ethical porn sites usually ensures ‘discreet packaging’ with Frolicme being no exception as Anna explains, “I am very conscious that we all need to ensure discretion is maintained and all that will appear on your bank statement is the name, Henry Evelyn and either of my payment providers, ie. CCBill or Epoch. There will be NO mention of erotica or frolicme.com.”
The benefits of paying for your porn
If you’ve read the site’s mission statement you are entering and feel confident in supporting their work, you can be sure of several great things.
1 – everyone is getting paid!
2 – because the site is subscription-based, producers don’t need to rely on advertising that might pop up with triggering images or take you off-site.
3 – your information will be carefully looked after – here at Frolicme we never use your details for anything other than this site, and that is a solemn promise. If you’re visiting a ‘free’ porn site ask yourself how are these films being paid for? Chances are, some of your information might be used as trading chips.
4 – you can be sure that the models will be treated fairly and with the utmost respect.
5 – with your mind put at rest, and you will be free to let yourself go and fall into the fantasy world with guilt-free and shame-free porn. Safe to allow all the sexy good things in.
What makes an ethical film set?
First of all, a good rapport between the crew and cast must be established, knowing everyone is fairly treated and valued for their work and paid according to their requested fees—this good base to be built on throughout the working relationship. Anna, our Frolicme producer, pays particular attention to the comfort and requirements of her cast, ensuring they have everything they need to have a great shoot.
She likes to know her models personally and often asks them who they like to work with, ensuring great fun is had by all concerned and where the set will literally pop with chemistry. Many of the models featured are real-life partners, couples or just good friends that like working together. Sets are run professionally, and in a relaxed environment, after all, ethical porn is about capturing real natural sex where pleasure is key. The schedule is busy and focused, but the team relax over lunch, and dinners afterwards are a great time to chat through the scenes after a busy day of shooting.
Because so much effort and attention are put into the scenes ahead of filming, ethical porn makers know that a relaxed and happy model will make for some great relaxed and happy erotic sex movies. If people are feeling secure and safe, you can be sure that a sexy orgasmic zone will be much easier to achieve. Indeed, ethical porn endeavours to show real sex, real pleasure and real orgasms. While the models are there to perform, it’s less of a sex performance and more really just letting go and getting into it in a natural and sexy way, just with cameras around.
How to watch porn ethically?
You need to do your research and know as much as you can about the site you are investing your time and money with. Be prepared to pay for your porn and not just think that porn should be for free. You as the viewer can support those brands and sites that working hard to produce beautifully sexual films that support all those involved. A lot of the best ethical porn companies are female-founded and led with the focus well and truly on female pleasure, exploring female fantasies, and empowering women to feel that porn is for them and they can enjoy every sexy last second.
How to find ethical porn sites?
Well, here you are on one of the very best! Frolicme prides itself on producing some of the most sumptuous and sexy films online and Anna Richards is a major force in focusing on the importance of female pleasure – there are several diverse female-led platforms and great lists to help you navigate your way to some fabulous sex films to suit your tastes – and it’s great to know that watching porn and accessing erotica is no longer the taboo it once was, especially for women. We are taking ownership of our porn habits and making sure we do it our way, freeing ourselves of shame and getting DTF in the best possible way!
Is ethical sex boring sex?
Oh my goodness, absolutely not! Just because we have morals doesn’t mean we can’t be kinky and downright filthy. Explore all your favourite sexual fantasies from anal, threesomes, bondage, masturbation, and double penetration, you dream it up there will be an ethical female-directed porn producer who has made it to turn you on.
Enjoying your sexytime watching ethical and feminist pornography is a really great way to amp up your libido, find new things that turn you on and explore your fantasies in a safe and natural way. With ethical porn, you will even feel confident to talk about sex films and recommend some sites to your friends. We love what we do here at Frolicme and are proud to bring you the ultimate fantasy world!
We would love to see a pegging video. Why shouldn’t she penetrate him?