Pelvic floor, top tips on how to work those muscles for pelvic phwoar
Births, incontinence, sexual trauma can leave some woman and vulva owners feeling disconnected to their sexual selves, ignoring or burying their problem through shame, lack of education and resources. If it doesn’t function as it should, it gets ignored—orgasms often the last thing health care professionals mention. One woman is fighting back against shame and stigma and helping women...
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Online censorship, censoring our sex
The West has a very long history of censoring sex. In 1580 for example, English politician William Lambarde drafted the first bill to ban “licentious” and “hurtful… books, pamphlets, ditties, songs, and other works that promote the art of “lascivious ungodly love”. 440 years later and the struggle between freedom of expression and government censorship shows no sign of...
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My confession by Jodi
I used to travel on the bus to see my partner, the road was long and windy. One day, I found I’d sat on the seat by the wheel hub. With each corner, the seat rattled and vibrated leaving me excitedly moist between the legs. I remember wondering how long it would be before the sun went down and...
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Hotwife or stag and vixen fantasy? Is this lifestyle more popular than we thought?
What is a hotwife and the stag and vixen lifestyle? A hot wife is a married woman who has sex outside the marriage with full consent of her husband—sometimes her husband is included in the action by watching or even taking part in a threesome. Other times, the husband is elsewhere—waiting to hear every juicy detail afterwards or to...
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5 female masturbation films to get you hot
As we come to the end of our Masturbation Month of May, we thought we should share a round-up of 5 of our fabulous female masturbation films that we find so hot, having focused on our men masturbating at the beginning of the month. There’s something so exhilarating about witnessing a woman take control over her own sexual pleasure—to be...
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10 Tips on how to finger fuck her vulva
Preparation and hygiene Wash your hands and make sure the nails on the fingers you intend to use are clean and clipped, or at least filed smooth with no ragged edges. If your lover is prone to squirting pop some towels underneath you both. Get some nicely warmed lube close to hand. Start with the mind and other erogenous...
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Understanding cock rings
Usually worn at the base of the shaft, their fundamental function is to hold your penis tight, and this leads to a firmer hard cock and fuller erection. Not only can this prolong the action, but it can also enhance pleasure for all parties involved. Also referred to as penis rings, I am a fan of these gorgeous toys....
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My confession by Dee Michelle
I had been considering this for a while….being a unicorn, I mean. I realised that I was bisexual a few years ago when I was in my mid-30s. My husband supported and encouraged me to be with women from time to time. I did, quite happily. It was hard to find someone for more than a one-night stand. I...
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Masturbation films, our top 5 hot male solo films for May
Because May is Masturbation Month, we thought we’d share a round-up of five of our fabulous men masturbating videos where our leading gents indulge in some delicious solo pleasure. Masturbation is such an intimate act and to be allowed to watch, to have access and permission to indulge in voyeuristic sex fantasy videos, is a unique experience indeed. We’ve collated...
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I have wanted to kiss girls for years but I am not a lesbian
I’ve wanted to kiss girls for about 30 years. But as I also wanted to kiss boys and that’s what was expected of me, that is exactly what I did. Boyfriends in my teens, one long term relationship, then a year of fun fucking anything with a cock, before I met my husband. Yet I’ve always had girl crushes,...
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Why embracing female pleasure is the key to a happy life and self-love
Let’s talk about masturbation. If you have a vulva, this is a loaded topic. It is often rife with messages of shame, discomfort, and a general lack of knowledge. According to a 2020 survey by SKYN condoms, 83 per cent of people equate intimacy with sex and want that with a partner, yet the orgasm gap still exists. Only...
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10 of the hottest sex films in mainstream cinema
Yes, we are talking about those steamy scenes that make the hottest sex films. What mainstream films that aren’t porn, get you so hot you think of them as sex films? Do you have a top list of hot movies that contain sexual scenes that turn you on and get your pulse racing? We reached out to get some thoughts...
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Sex toy review – the Tenga Egg
What on earth is a Tenga Egg? The Tenga Egg is a wonderful egg-shaped box containing a soft stretchy sleeve that you use to pleasure the penis in your life, making masturbating your member much more magnificent! It’s like a joyfully grown-up version of a Kinder Egg and lasts way longer. Unlike some other male masturbators, the Tenga Egg does not have...
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My Confession by Curious Midwife
My name is Iris and I am a midwifery student. A curious and sharp one. The story and confession I present to you is my first and a true one. This situation has made me daydream a lot and has kept me up lots of nights. I deeply enjoy being a midwife. Even if I am a novice, being...
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Women and sexuality
When we think about women and sex or women’s sexuality, one of the things that we are told most often and clearly is that women are not very sexual. The reasons we are given for this idea vary widely: women are from Venus and therefore romance is more important to them than sex, so the only reason that most...
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Fantasise about a hot threesome? Here’s 8 reasons why you really should
In this study, over 4,000 people were surveyed and 89% named a hot threesome as their top fantasy. Straight men preferred to have two female lovers and straight women did not express a preference either way. So just what is the appeal of the threesome fantasy? Threesomes have been around for as long as people have been having sex,...
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My Confession by Positive
This is my story of how I went from a very dull, almost non-existent sex life to having some great excitement and fun. It all happened about three years ago. I’d been married for 30 years, I won’t say happily, and in a really low place with no sex life to speak of and wanting to see what was...
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I’ve been a bad girl… when you think you deserve a sexy spanking
Have you ever felt that thrill running down the back of your neck when you’ve done something a little naughty and got away with it? Like perhaps you didn’t wear your knickers to work, or ‘forgot’ to close the curtains while you were getting changed. Maybe you didn’t put the money in the meter at a parking spot but...
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Blow jobs, are we doing it right?
Fellatio, blow jobs, head, oral, whatever you call it, we want to know if we’re doing it right? Fellatio is the act of sexually stimulating a penis with your mouth—sounds simple enough right? Turns out there are many more tricks to blow jobs and giving your lover the best head of their life. It could be a simple switch...
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Benefits of masturbation, time to boost our immunity
During such extraordinary times, it’s more important than ever to understand our bodies. Here we explore the multiple benefits of masturbation and how it can support a healthy immune system. An Orgasm a Day…. Keeps the doctor away, sounds too good to be true? Well, it isn’t! For anyone with a clitoris, regular orgasms are REALLY good for your...
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