What is Endometriosis? Endometriosis is a medical condition where tissue similar to the lining inside the womb (uterus) begins to grow outside of the uterus. This tissue can be found on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, bowel area and other organs within the pelvis and around the body. In the UK, around 1.5 million women and those assigned female at...
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The first time I masturbated, I used a pencil. It was one of those black and yellow HB pencils with a shiny red tip. My knowledge of sexual pleasure came from the late-night softcore Blue movies that channel 5 used to show after 10 pm, Sexcetera, Exotica Erotica, Emmanuel In Space On Sy-Fy (watched on the lowest possible volume...
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Over the years, Mrs H and I have enjoyed each other’s company. Mrs H is a lovely, petite woman with a radiant smile and a naughty twinkle in her eyes. Something about us always made me wonder if there was something deeper and more intimate. When we were together, her smile was even more radiant, and there was this...
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How long should sex last? Most of us instinctively understand that there is no ‘correct’ answer to that question. However, for many of us—people with penises in particular—there’s still a nagging feeling that stamina is high on the list of desirable qualities in a sexual partner. Coming too quickly—often called ‘premature ejaculation’ if you have a dick—can sometimes be...
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Some of my best sex has happened on my period. I’m lucky enough to only suffer painful cramps for one day, but the rest of the time I’m bleeding, I’m outrageously horny. It’s as if my body has turned a dial on arousal and suddenly what used to be a ‘want’ has become almost a ‘need.’ And I’m not...
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Je Joue, meaning ‘I play’ in French, is a sex-positive, independent, luxury sex toy brand. Because we have featured this beautiful little vibrator in one of our upcoming films, I was kindly sent two Vitas to review. Appearance The Je Joue Vita comes in an elegant and stylish drawer-style box, so you really feel like you are opening a gift....
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It was rush hour, and it was crowded in that car. Always is, and usually I hate it. Squeezed into a corner of the train, clinging desperately to the handrail above me as I’m surrounded by men and women coming home from work or shopping or whatever it is they did that dragged them out into the misery we...
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In the lyrics of Primal Scream “Just what is it that you want to do?” when it comes to sex, you know the answer—We wanna have a good time, and do what we wanna do! But as grown-up people we know that doing what and who we want comes with responsibilities to ourselves and each other. Consent and communication are the key components to...
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Having owned a sex toy store for five years, I know a thing or two about how to make the most of your toys. I very much appreciate the excitement of buying new pleasure objects, but I’m also a huge advocate for making the most of what you already have. You don’t always need to buy the latest release...
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Perhaps the most common piece of sex advice offered online (or anywhere else, for that matter) is ‘communicate’. We’re told that communication is key, and that is definitely true—not just in sex but throughout relationships as a whole. But rarely are we given advice on how to talk about sex. Living in a society where we’re discouraged from talking about sex...
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It was the start of summer in London, and it was an amazingly beautiful June evening. A new bar was opening, and my girlfriend and I were invited to it. We arrived just after eight and there was a decent queue out the front, slowly filing in. We joined the line and saw a few people we knew in...
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Ah, those sex noises, oos the ahhs—the yes, Yes YESSES! Sex scenes in films and TV shows usually depict lovers in the throes of passion roaring, panting and grunting all the way to orgasm. Certainly, porn films also elevate the ooos into something mythical, but what about reality? From sneaking lovers under the cover of darkness into your parents’...
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In the world of porn and visual erotica, you might sometimes feel led to believe that a penis in a vagina is the only way to ‘do sex right’. While good old PIV can be sensationally pleasurable and extremely hot to watch, there are so many other ways to ‘do sex right’ and have a lot of fun doing...
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We’re here to champion a Valentine’s solo seduction extravaganza! After all is there anyone who can love you just the way you can? You know your favourite flowers, you know your favourite scent, film, body lotion. So we say, go all in for YOU this year! Take a leaf, or should we say petal, from our beautiful Sofia’s book....
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For anyone looking to dip their toe into the world of sex toys, a bullet vibrator really is a perfect little starter. Designed primarily for clitoral stimulation, they are also one of the largest collectives of sex toys focused on delivering female pleasure due to the clitoris, believed to house more nerve endings than a penis and whose sole...
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If you’ve recently watched our erotic movies, Number One and our female-only, Tantra Number Two, you might be thinking about tantra and giving the slow, sensual world of tantra-inspired sex a whirl. So what is tantra? Tantra is a Sanskrit term which means to weave, or even more lovely—to compose. Thinking about these definitions alone, you can feel a slowing of...
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Over the weekend, my wife, Sandy, and I play golf together as a couple, usually accompanied by one or two other couples from our neighbourhood. We complete this activity by enjoying a dinner together with the others at a restaurant in the area. A few weeks ago, we booked two tee times for our local course on Saturday afternoon....
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With over 50 erotic films coming out each year, it’s hard to pick a favourite or even a top ten! So this year I’ve enlisted the help of some of our story writers and the great lady and founder herself, Anna Richards, to give me their favourite Frolicme 2023 erotic movies of the year and why. As the stories’...
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Yes, that special time of year is getting close, and as we all know, Santa is coming, and we hope you are too! So here is something special to ensure you and your loved ones do, with this thoughtful and downright sexy as-hell gift for lovers you can even share. A Frolicme membership. We feel we all deserve a...
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What exactly is softcore porn? You may have seen or heard (largely from right-leaning tabloids) that porn (even softcore porn) is bad for you. It rots your brain, ruins your relationship, damages your health, hell… it pretty much destroys your life and does anything else bad that you can imagine. Well, it turns out that these things aren’t exactly...
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