There’s been some discussion recently about scheduling sex and if that works. Does it just ruin the spontaneity? Or does it give time to plan, the mental foreplay adding to the spice earlier on? One area that scheduling time for and planning ahead is a great idea is anal sex. It does require some preparation especially if you haven’t...
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Erotica is one of the most underrated genres in literature. It is often scorned, left out of literary prizes, and often not seen as a true intellectual storytelling platform. Well, I’m here to say that in my opinion written erotica is one of the most important genres in literature. You can explore characters through their internal sexual dialogue in...
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Now living in New York after five years in Miami, Genevieve LeJeune, founder of the female members-only sex club event company, Skirt Club is not impressed by the cold. I talked to Genevieve about the rise in popularity for her female-only sex parties and we Skyped on a rather cool day in New York and a positively tropical one...
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For some, the allure of threesomes is tantalising indeed. Three hot bodies entwined in the most erotic way, allowing their animalistic instincts to take over, limbs entangled, pleasure shared… What a treat! We have many erotic movies featuring the pleasure of threesomes and multiple group action—the perfect way to indulge your ménage-a-trois fantasies. To watch the sexual connection between three...
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“Being on the receiving end of a serious spanking creates focus, drowns out all the noise and pumps out happy hormones for better sleep and creative thinking.” Depending on your sexual tastes, you’re either nodding enthusiastically right now or frowning in incredulity. If the latter then you’re not alone. In the past, you’d have been hard-pressed to find the...
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If you’ve ever asked a sex blogger to give up their Doxy Massager, (click on the link to get 15% off from Frolicme) you’ll get some form of the phrase “From my cold dead hands…” I myself am a long-time fan, my purple Doxy original has been kept carefully in the nightstand for over 3 years now. It is...
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This is a true erotic tale of my first anal sex with my wife V, how it happened, and how many years later I still remember it. It’s a confession about being naïve, first times, and how mysterious some women are about their sexuality. But it’s also about some women, who won’t tell a man what they want in...
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You never really think about getting old until you hit a certain age. When you do, you are suddenly and acutely aware of the fact that you have far fewer years ahead of you than you have behind you. For me, it was a few years ago when I hit 55. And when you reach this moment, inevitably your...
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With consumers becoming increasingly savvy about sustainability and lifestyle choices such as veganism, it’s only natural that the pleasure industries forge ahead with these ideals. One such company is HANX—a luxury brand of condoms shaking up the market and bringing us a new perspective on the humble prophylactic. FrolicMe caught up with the unstoppable young duo behind the brand....
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I remember there was a time in my life when I’d shudder at the word cunt. It seemed dark and dirty, a slur, a nasty put down, the very worst thing you could call somebody. It is a hard sounding word too, with its c and t – it’s usually prefixed by the word fucking. You Fucking Cunt. I...
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Rediscover fingering as it is such an underrated sex act, often consigned to the memory of first time erotic fumblings or teenage shenanigans. Bizarre when you realise, that fingering can be one of the most intimate and pleasurable experiences you can have with another person. It can often be forgotten as part of the sexual encounter—or even the conclusion of...
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Polyamory is getting a lot of airtime in the media lately. Five years ago, you could say “polyamory” in an average room full of people and get nothing but blank looks in return. (Believe me, I did. Many times.) A decade ago, this was even truer. But, having been featured in mainstream media as diverse as a New York...
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Coco, a long-time friend of my wife, Sugar, turned 50 recently. She is several years older than my wife but the two have been close friends since college. We took her on a wine tasting trip to celebrate. During the trip, Coco told us that she was ready to turn the page on her life to finally spend some...
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The Womanizer Liberty is a clitoral vibrator that uses a patented airwave technology and suction to bring you a new kind of orgasmic experience. It’s a handheld device with what can only be described as a suction cup big enough to hold a nipple or your clitoris. The sucking portion fully surrounds the protruding part of your clit and...
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ASMR stands for autonomous sensory meridian response and is described as a tingling feeling usually triggered by certain sounds. The sensations can resemble a rushing or the feeling that your nerves are being stimulated. It begins in the scalp and cascades up and down the body—resulting in delicious feelings of euphoria. ASMR is most usually triggered by audio recordings,...
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Rings have graced fingers for millennia. Digits just lend themselves to adornment—they are long, elegant and expressive. It’s only natural to add a piece of jewellery to them. And you can read so much about someone’s personality by a glance at their hands. A statement ring on an index finger might suggest artistic flair, a thumb ring might suggest...
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Did you know that there is a bricks and mortar museum dedicated to the penis but no equivalent for the vagina? Well, all that is about to change. FrolicMe caught up with Florence Schechter—a science communicator, comedian and presenter who has taken up the challenge to redress this balance and bring a Vagina Museum into the world. It was...
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This is my true story which evolved into a confession. Back in the ’90s, I was the young manager of a hotel in England. As it was a small hotel my position was very hands-on, involving chores that would have been delegated to someone else in a larger hotel. One such duty was to refill the mini bars which...
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Domination and submission play was thrown into the public spotlight by the Fifty Shades of Grey series, which focussed on a dominant male and a woman who became his submissive. The sexual BDSM implications of such a relationship were highlighted and consequently many people who read the books explored bondage with a D/s dynamic in the bedroom. But being...
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Edging is the art of being sexually aroused to the brink of orgasm but halting stimulation just before the actual release. By doing this repeatedly the pleasure sensations build and build making the final glorious climax a stronger and more satisfying experience. The key is to stop at the perfect point so that you’re constantly ‘on the edge’ of...
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