Being pregnant is a beautiful thing. You’re in bloom and looking all glowy despite the stomach-churning bouts of morning sickness or the constant and urgent need to empty your bladder that many experience. For lots of people, being pregnant is a time to celebrate. You’re carrying a child; you have the perfect excuse to overindulge in all the naughty...
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Jonathan Aldfrith explains what erotic writing and sexual creativity has meant to him, how it helped him recover from major surgery and why he feels it is intrinsically linked to wellbeing. It’s a pretty sobering thought when you hear the words: “If I don’t operate within the next few hours, you will die.” I didn’t die as that operation...
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You’ve been learning about morning sickness, painful breasts, Braxton Hicks, piles, labour, lactation, all the changes your body will go through, but did anyone talk about the pleasures of sex in pregnancy? You may have been told by your Dr, midwife or health professional that it is fine to have sex during pregnancy – unless you have a medical...
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One of the things 2020 tried to teach us was having a WAP is a good thing, desirable even. Naturally, the next question on a lot of people’s lips would be, what on earth is a WAP? According to Cardi B, a WAP is a wet ass pussy but, the acronym also has another less than sexy meaning. In...
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Single people have really had a tough year. Casual hook-ups have been pretty much forbidden, according to government law, intimacy is a thing of the past and most of us can’t remember the last time we hugged another human being. No orgasms, no spooning, no one stroking your arm in bed. A lack of human connection actually has a...
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Endometriosis can be a painful and often debilitating condition where tissues similar to the lining of the uterus (Endometrium) grow outside the womb yet still behave as if they were part of the menstrual cycle—thickening, breaking down and shedding once a month in a painful way—bleeding where there’s no escape through the cervix or vagina. The symptoms associated with...
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What is PCOS? Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS) is a condition that affects 1 in 10 people with ovaries and is associated with an imbalance of hormones, including androgens, insulin and progesterone. This imbalance interrupts ovulation and causes ovaries to develop multiple cysts when follicles are unable to release eggs. It can cause several symptoms including: Irregular-often heavy periods, acne,...
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Births, incontinence, sexual trauma can leave some woman and vulva owners feeling disconnected to their sexual selves, ignoring or burying their problem through shame, lack of education and resources. If it doesn’t function as it should, it gets ignored—orgasms often the last thing health care professionals mention. One woman is fighting back against shame and stigma and helping women...
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Let’s talk about masturbation. If you have a vulva, this is a loaded topic. It is often rife with messages of shame, discomfort, and a general lack of knowledge. According to a 2020 survey by SKYN condoms, 83 per cent of people equate intimacy with sex and want that with a partner, yet the orgasm gap still exists. Only...
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During such extraordinary times, it’s more important than ever to understand our bodies. Here we explore the multiple benefits of masturbation and how it can support a healthy immune system. An Orgasm a Day…. Keeps the doctor away, sounds too good to be true? Well, it isn’t! For anyone with a clitoris, regular orgasms are REALLY good for your...
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Pleasure. Intimacy. Self-love. Creativity. Exploration. What are the chances that these words are associated with your memory of sex education in school? Unlikely. Sex education, if you even received any, is typically centred around contraception and the prevention of pregnancy and STIs. Of course, these are essential topics, but isn’t it odd that pleasure—something that brings humans joy—is considered...
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There has been an uproar about pornography for decades. Since the advent of the internet and free or low-cost access to pornography, the uproar has turned into a crusade. Most of the press about pornography is negative though there is little evidence that pornography does damage on its own. I am a registered psychologist and a sex & intimacy...
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No doubt the term Electrosex brings up mixed emotions. On the one hand, we have the term sex—a fantastic and highly pleasurable activity. But on the other hand, we have the term electro. Yes, electro, as in electricity. What is electrosex? Electrosex is all about using electricity for pleasure. It is a kinky activity that has its practitioners passing...
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Menopause and Perimenopause are tricky times in a woman’s life. As a fifty-year-old woman going through it, I totally understand why it used to be called ‘The Change’ years ago. It feels as if your body is waging war on you. Interrupted sleep, hot bits that used to be cool, dry bits that used to be wet. The worst...
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Erotica is one of the most underrated genres in literature. It is often scorned, left out of literary prizes, and often not seen as a true intellectual storytelling platform. Well, I’m here to say that in my opinion written erotica is one of the most important genres in literature. You can explore characters through their internal sexual dialogue in...
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You never really think about getting old until you hit a certain age. When you do, you are suddenly and acutely aware of the fact that you have far fewer years ahead of you than you have behind you. For me, it was a few years ago when I hit 55. And when you reach this moment, inevitably your...
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Sex toys are an amazing addition to your sex life, whether you’re single, dating, happily partnered or anything in between. But there are literally thousands of options out there on the market, and choosing can be daunting, to say the least. Never fear – this guide will take all the mystery out of choosing a sex toy, whether you...
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So, nipple orgasms, what do we think or know? I invited one of our writers and erotic authors, Posy Churchgate, to delve deeper into nipple stimulation and nipple play. Here she explores her findings and those of many other sex writers and bloggers on the mysteries of experiencing a nipple orgasm and the joys that come with them… Are nipple...
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Ladies and I am referring this one directly to the girls first, do you have a G-spot? It is a subject that never seems to go away with as many clearly identifying from personal sexual experience its whereabouts, others that are less sure. What we do know is it is very widely known, well certainly the name, but the...
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FrolicMe’s lead writer PJA Woode makes a passionate plea for an open mind when it comes to the appearance of women’s most valuable assets. A short while ago I penned a piece about the penis. As a bloke who owns one of these items I felt pretty qualified to write about them, and I described the humble foreskin, and...
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