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Coming out as monogamous, will people think I’m boring… am I boring?

With all the wonderful sexual exploration and focus on open relationships, consensual non-monogamy, swinging and more, it could be tempting to think that by being in a long-term monogamous relationship you might be missing out on something, or be perceived as a bit… boring. What happened to those youthful ideals of freedom, joy and sexual abandon? Well, let’s start...

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Like the idea of sexting, here’s some tips on sexting etiquette

So what exacting is sexting? Sexting is a way to indulge in some sexy time action through sending and receiving explicit messages, whether that’s sexy images, text or voice. It’s used primarily to turn both sender and recipient on sexually so the very first thing we have to talk about is… Yes, you’ve guessed it—consent! You can’t send anyone sexual...

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